By Mark Neff, CEO, Forsyth Humane Society In March, our lives flipped upside down when my partner was diagnosed with Stage 4 metastatic melanoma. The news was gut-wrenching, and our normal routine vanished overnight. It became a relentless whirlwind of five surgeries, biweekly oncologist visits, monthly infusions, and the constant management of fatigue and uncertainty. Life wasn’t about to-do lists anymore; it was about survival. As the CEO of Forsyth Humane Society, I’ve always been a Type A person who thrives on being the go-to person. I often tell people our work is like running an emergency room—it’s fast-paced, and community needs are always shifting. But this experience has forced me to let go of the relentless pursuit of perfection. I’ve had to accept that not every email will be answered by the end of the day and that it’s okay for to-do lists to roll over. Most importantly, I’ve learned that asking for help isn’t a weakness; it’s a sign of true strength. I’m incredibly lucky to have an amazing team. They don’t wait for me to “fix” everything. Instead, they rise to the occasion, solving problems and carrying our mission forward with professionalism and kindness. Watching them shine has been a powerful lesson: true leadership isn’t about doing it all yourself. It’s about empowering others and trusting them to get the job done. This lesson extends to my home life, where I’ve had to embrace a new kind of imperfection. It’s okay if the house isn’t pristine every day or if the dogs miss a walk one evening. For years, I’ve urged my team to take vacations and find balance. Yet, I was the first to put in 50–60-hour weeks without a break in over two years. This journey has forced me to practice what I preach. Balance isn’t a luxury; it’s essential for a sustainable life. It’s so easy to talk about balance and cherishing what truly matters. We hear it everywhere, from social media to self-help gurus. But living it? That’s a whole different ball game. I now encourage all of us to not just acknowledge these truths but to act on them. You can be a solid leader and run a successful business while also being a present partner, parent, or friend. The key is to take care of yourself and the people who mean the most to you. I’ve always believed in the principle of “no judgment.” In animal welfare, it’s easy to make snap assumptions about people, but we never know the hidden struggles they might be facing. I’ve told my team this time and again, and now I’m living it from the other side. My struggles aren’t always visible, and I’ve realized that what others think of me matters far less than simply doing my best and understanding my own motivations. This journey is ongoing and certainly not easy. But I’m learning that true strength isn’t about doing more; it’s about finding balance, leaning on others, and giving ourselves the same grace we give to those around us. It’s a lesson I’ll carry with me as a leader and, more importantly, as a human being.
Before You Hit “Send”: A Reflection on Kindness, Accountability, and Responsibility
By Mark Neff, CEO, Forsyth Humane Society In an age where communication is instantaneous and emotions can be broadcast with the tap of a key, it’s more important than ever to pause and ask ourselves: “Do I have all the facts?” As the CEO of Forsyth Humane Society, I am deeply proud of the work we do every day to advocate for animals and support the people who love and care for them. But in our increasingly digital world, I’ve also observed a growing tendency—within our communities and beyond—to rush to judgment and unleash criticism without taking time to understand the full picture. This isn’t just a matter of social decorum; it’s about integrity, empathy, and the values we choose to uphold as individuals and as a society. Too often, someone’s reputation—be it an individual, a business, or an organization—is damaged by the power of a social media post or email that’s rooted in frustration or hearsay rather than truth. What’s often missing from these moments is due diligence—the simple act of ensuring that we’ve gathered all sides of a story before reacting. We must remember that every narrative has more than one perspective, and often, what we see or hear initially is incomplete at best. And this isn’t just about fairness. It’s about humanity. We rarely know the full story of what someone else may be carrying. The coworker who seems withdrawn may be struggling with personal loss. The business you feel didn’t meet your expectations may be working through staff shortages or internal crises. The individual you’re tempted to criticize online may be giving everything they have to hold it all together. By rushing to judgment and reacting publicly, we may unintentionally inflict harm on people who are already in pain. That’s why I believe so strongly in the power—and the necessity—of kindness. It may sound simple, but in a time when kindness feels in such short supply, choosing it is an act of courage. Choosing to listen instead of assume. Choosing to ask instead of accuse. Choosing to respond instead of react. These are the choices that define our character, and they can be the difference between division and understanding. This does not mean we avoid accountability or excuse poor behavior. Feedback, when grounded in fact and shared constructively, is vital for growth. But we have alternatives in how we engage with one another, especially when emotions are high. When we’re disgruntled or disappointed, let’s start by seeking direct and respectful dialogue. Let’s use the channels available to us to express concerns privately and with care. Let’s remember that people are human—and most are trying their best. As a community, we are stronger when we choose empathy over outrage, truth over assumption, and kindness over condemnation. The work we do at Forsyth Humane Society is built on compassion—for animals and for people. That compassion doesn’t end at the shelter door. It extends to how we treat one another, how we show up in times of tension, and how we choose to communicate in a digital world that often forgets the human on the other side of the screen. So before you hit “send,” I invite you to pause. Ask yourself if you’ve sought the full story. Consider the weight of your words and the lives they touch. And whenever possible, choose the path of grace. It may not be the loudest choice, but it’s often the one that brings us closer to the kind of community—and the kind of world—we all want to be part of. With respect and gratitude,Mark NeffCEO, Forsyth Humane Society
Celebrating Black History Month
Forsyth Humane Society is celebrating Black History Month by spotlighting Black men and women who have made great contributions to the animal welfare world. The Humane Society of the United States reminds us that, “the history is complex: The modern American animal welfare movement emerged in the wake of emancipation, and from the beginning, the movement’s leaders drew comparisons between human slavery and animal abuse. (Paula) Tarankow’s research shows that using the experience of Black Americans as a metaphor for animal causes ignored the fact that Black Americans were still suffering the very real effects of slavery. In working with white animal advocates, Black animal advocates were typically discouraged from raising the subject of the racism they continued to experience in their daily lives, essentially forcing them to choose: If they wanted to raise their voices for animals, they would have to keep silent about racism to avoid making the largely white, middle-class “mainstream” of the early movement uncomfortable.” The Humane Society of the United States continues explaining how among the messiness of the movement, “Black reformers continued to advocate for animals even as they themselves continued to be denied their full humanity. Rather than use liberation from slavery as a metaphor for animal rights, Black reformers saw kindness toward animals as an extension of civil rights activism, emphasizing that kindness toward animals and kindness toward human beings were linked. One of the most prolific platforms for this work involved the Bands of Mercy program, of the Massachusetts SPCA. Bands of Mercy were humane education groups, and members participated in meetings and community service that centered around being kind to animals. Many participants were children who took lifelong pledges to be kind to animals and to try to prevent harm to all living creatures. Black advocates in several Southern states were highly involved with the program as teachers and organizers and worked as field agents.” F. Rivers Barnwell of Texas approached kindness to animals as a social justice project promoting competitions at African American schools to build birdhouses to support wildlife, and spoke to soldiers about the humane treatment of horses used in World War I. The Rev. Richard Carroll, a prominent South Carolina reformer, born into slavery, also established Bands of Mercy as he worked to create a more humane world in his work from around 1910 until he died in 1929. His son, Seymour Carroll, built on this legacy, campaigning against the use of steel traps for wildlife in South Carolina. Perhaps the most famous Black leader in the early animal welfare movement was a formerly enslaved man named William Key. Mr. Key performed for hundreds of thousands of people along with his horse, “Beautiful Jim Key”. The horse responded to prompts and requests from the audience, showing his intelligence. Key and his horse modeled a beautiful example of the human-animal relationship not sustained through violence. A core part of their act emphasized that Beautiful Jim never felt the sting of a whip—instead, he’d been trained through patience, kindness, apples, and sugar! By the end of Key’s career in 1909, more than a million children had taken the Jim Key Pledge to be kind to animals. As the movement progresses, we see a more diverse population of Doctor of Veterinary Medicine. Dr. Iverson C. Bell (1916-1984) started his education at Kansas State University, served in the US Army, returned to Wayne State University, and on to Michigan State University where he earned his DVM. He ran a thriving private practice for 35 years, valuing education and political leadership positions including those for fair housing, and criminal justice. He was honored with an ambassadorship to Nigeria by President John F. Kennedy and worked throughout his life to combat discrimination of his era. Alongside Dr. Bell, was Dr. Frederick Douglass Patterson (1901-1988) the founder of the Tuskegee School of Veterinarian Medicine which, to this day, has graduated an estimated 75% of African American veterinarians. Named after the famed journalist and anti-slavery leader, Dr. Patterson was raised by his older sister after being orphaned at the age of two. He attended Iowa State College where he earned his DVM and began teaching at Tuskegee University in 1928. Among his many accomplishments was the founding of the United Negro College Fund which remains a major financial supporter of Historically Black Colleges and Universities. Just after Dr. Patterson began teaching at Tuskegee University, and while Dr. Bell was progressing in the movement towards equality in veterinarian medicine, Dr. Alfreda Johnson Webb was growing up in Alabama. She completed her Bachelor of Science and attended the Tuskegee University School of Veterinarian Medicine. In 1949 she graduated alongside Dr. Jane Hinton as the first African American woman to graduate from veterinarian school. Dr. Patterson was also the first licensed woman to practice veterinarian medicine in the United States. She was a biology professor at North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University from 1959 to 1978, where she was a member of the planning committee that founded the School of Veterinarian Medicine of North Carolina State University. She held many honors and served on many committees and is a true pioneer in our field and a champion of justice and democracy. At Forsyth Humane Society we are committed to creating conditions within our community that foster the compassionate care of pets and the people who love them. We strive to continue to learn more about and work alongside the people of color who have and continue to positively impact the animal welfare community right here in our backyard to pave a path together, towards a humane society. Here’s to taking, and continuing, the tradition of the Jim Key Pledge of being kind to animals, and people! Sources: The Humane Society of the United States, Faithful Friends Animal Society, Michigan Humane Society, and VCA Animal Hospitals
📢 Breaking News: Forsyth Humane Society’s Next Endeavor – A New Low-Cost Spay/Neuter & Wellness Clinic at 725 Waughtown Street! 🏥🐾
Dear friends and supporters, We are thrilled to share some incredible news that’s bound to make a paw-sitive impact on our community! Forsyth Humane Society is proud to announce the acquisition of the 725 Waughtown Street location, where we’ll soon be opening a state-of-the-art Low-Cost Spay/Neuter & Wellness Clinic! Our mission has always been to improve the lives of pets and the people who love them. With this new venture, we’re taking a giant leap forward in fulfilling our mission by removing barriers to vital wellness services and surgeries for our beloved furry companions. Here’s what this exciting development means for our community: Affordable Services: We understand that providing quality healthcare for your pets can be financially challenging. Our low-cost clinic will offer a range of essential services, including spaying and neutering, vaccinations, microchipping, and more. Accessible Care: Our new clinic’s central location on Waughtown Street ensures easy access for all members of the community. No more long commutes or difficult journeys – we’re bringing convenient and reliable pet care closer to you. Community Impact: By providing affordable spay/neuter and wellness services, we’re not only promoting responsible pet ownership but also contributing to the overall health and well-being of our furry family members. Healthier pets mean happier families and a stronger, more vibrant community. Reducing Overpopulation: One of our core goals is to address the issue of pet overpopulation. By making spay/neuter services more accessible, we’re taking a proactive step towards reducing the number of homeless animals and ensuring that every pet has the chance for a loving, forever home. Empowering Pet Owners: We believe that every pet owner should have the resources and knowledge to provide the best care for their pets. Our clinic will not only offer services but also information on resources to empower you to be the best pet parent you can be. Stay tuned for more updates as we work diligently to transform this space into a hub of compassionate care. We are incredibly grateful for your continued support, which has made this expansion possible. Thank you for being a part of this journey with us! Together, we’re making a difference in the lives of animals and the community we hold dear. With heartfelt gratitude, Mark Neff President & CEO Forsyth Humane Society
Carman’s Journey to a Happy Ending: Help Fund Her Surgery!
Carman, a sweet black Labrador, came into our care at Forsyth Humane Society as an owner surrender. Due to unforeseen circumstances, her previous owner could not provide the time and care she deserved, and she arrived at the shelter alongside her companion, Guy. Although they lived together for a few years, it became apparent that they were not a bonded pair, and Guy found his forever home quickly. However, Carman’s journey took a different turn when we noticed she was limping, leading to a crucial discovery that changed her life. As dedicated caretakers of the animals in our care, we immediately noticed Carman’s discomfort and took her to our medical team for a thorough examination. Our veterinary experts soon diagnosed her with a torn cruciate ligament in her right knee, requiring urgent attention and specialized treatment. To ensure Carman’s well-being and give her the chance of a pain-free future, the vet recommended surgery to repair her torn CCL. Unfortunately, the surgery must be performed by a specialty veterinarian, making it essential and costly. It would cost up to 4,000. Carman’s condition is not to be taken lightly. If left untreated, it could cause her considerable pain and discomfort and increase the risk of injuring her opposite leg. We cannot allow this precious girl to suffer, so we’re contacting our wonderful community for support. While we work towards raising funds for Carman’s surgery, we are fortunate to have placed her in a loving foster home. Her foster family provides her with the care, love, and attention she deserves, making her feel safe and cherished as she waits for the surgery to change her life. Carman’s journey toward a happy ending depends on the generosity of our community. We humbly request your support in funding her much-needed surgery. Your contribution, no matter how big or small, will make a tremendous difference in her life and help her regain her mobility and comfort. Let’s come together and ensure that Carman gets the chance to experience a life full of love and joy. Following the surgery, Carman’s journey to recovery will continue with physical therapy, including hydrotherapy, which will aid in her healing process. We are committed to providing her with the best possible care and ensuring she receives the attention she needs throughout her rehabilitation. With your help, Carman can have the happy ending she so deserves. Let’s join forces, spread the word, and rally our community to support this fantastic girl on her path to recovery and a brighter future. Together, we can positively impact Carman’s life and demonstrate the true power of compassion and kindness. Carman’s story reminds us of the importance of responsible pet ownership and the need to provide our furry friends with the love and care they deserve. We are deeply committed to Carman’s well-being, and we know that with your support, she will overcome this obstacle and find her forever home. Let’s make a difference in Carman’s life and show her that her happy ending is just around the corner. Thank you for being a part of this incredible journey!
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